The higher-ups just called a special meeting in the conference room; thank God, you weren't invited. But your work pal was. As he boxes up his Star Wars figures and family photos, what can you say? Tough luck? Who needs 'em? Sayonara? Here's how you can help ease the pain. — Tommy Wallach

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Depersonalize. Like a child reeling from an ugly divorce, the recently pink-slipped must be constantly reminded: "This is not your fault."

Contextualize. Don't let your buddy forget that tens of thousands of others are going through the exact same thing.

Don't demonize. Beware the bitchfest. Fostering hate toward the company is always risky (especially since you still work there).

Patronize. Praise your friend's brilliance and talent. Throw out the names of other firms that would be overjoyed to hire your chum. Mention Google.

Philanthropize. Most important, when you meet at the local Olive Garden to hash things out over manicotti, you better pick up the check.ideapics/2601-05.jpg|||0||bottom||